
“Sometimes it is good fortune to be abandoned. While we are looking after our losses, our selves may slip back inside.”
Ameni Rozsa
more infosource: “An Average Sadness,” in I Thought My Father Was God (New York: Henry Holt, 2001), 379.
category: breakup, fortune, identity, loss, love, self
medium: Essay
“Be what you are, bury what you are not,” he had said. “Ticket stubs are trickery. Saving things is a magic trick, with mirrors.”
Ray Bradbury
more infosource: Dandelion Wine (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1978), 87.
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category: collect, ephemera, identity, self
medium: Fiction
“My heart always leads me to me!”
Stephen Colbert
more infosource: “Colbert for President? Tune In Tonight,” by Brian Stelter, Media Decoder (blog), New York Times, January 12, 2012.
category: heart, narcissist, self
medium: Blog
“Marshall McLuhan is taken far too seriously.”
Marshall McLuhan
more infosource: 1967 interview, YouTube video here (worth watching)
category: self, self-deprecation
medium: Interview
“Remember that writing is translation, and the opus to be translated is yourself.”
E. B. White
more infosource: letter to a student dated December 10, 1951, in Letters of E. B. White, rev. edition edited by Martha White (New York: Harper Perennial, 2007), 316.
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category: opus, self, translation, writing
medium: Letter
via: Carmela Ciuraru“Perhaps what’s most remarkable about the nom de plume, and rarely talked about, is its power to unlock creativity—and its capacity to withhold it. Even when its initial adoption is utilitarian, a pen name can assume a life of its own. Many writers have been surprised by the intimate and even disorienting relationships they have formed with their alter egos.”
Carmela Ciuraru
more infosource: “The Rise and Fall of Pseudonyms,” The New York Times, June 24, 2011.
category: ego, identity, nom de plume, pseudonym, self
medium: Newspaper essay
“Most people don’t form a self and then lead a life. They are called by a problem, and the self is constructed gradually by their calling.”
David Brooks
more infosource: “It’s Not About You,” The New York Times, May 30, 2011.
medium: Op-Ed
“I’m very interested in someone’s path to knowledge being a kind of madness. I’m interested in the route that people must take to arrive at a spot where they can be large and whole and responsive.”
Scott Spencer
more infosource: “Scott Spencer,” interviewed by Lorrie Moore, BOMB magazine, issue 67, Spring 1999.
category: knowledge, madness, mind, self
medium: Interview
“I don’t think that an artist should bother about his audience. His best audience is the person he sees in his shaving mirror every morning. I think that the audience an artist imagines, when he imagines that kind of a thing, is a room filled with people wearing his own mask.”
Vladimir Nabokov
more infosource: July 1962 interview with Peter Duval-Smith and Christopher Burstall, in Strong Opinions (New York: McGraw-Hill Book Company, 1973), 18.
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category: audience, self, writing
medium: Interview
“When she went into ‘Willow, Weep for Me,’ you wept. You looked about and saw that the few other customers were also crying in their beer and shot glasses. Nor were they that drunk. Something was still there, that something that distinguishes an artist from a performer: the revealing of self. Here I be. Not for long, but here I be. In sensing her mortality, we sensed our own.”
Studs Terkel
more infosource: describing Billie Holiday, in Talking to Myself: A Memoir of My Times (New York: Pantheon Books, 1984), 226.
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category: Billie Holiday, mortality, music, performer, self, singer
medium: Memoir
via: The Writer's Almanac“Bosom not as copious as she would wish, but has noticed that Botticelli bosoms are not big either. Legs OK, according to husband. Freckles.”
Julia Child
more infosource: Describing herself in a February 23, 1953 letter to Avis DeVoto in As Always, Julia: The Letters of Julia Child and Avis DeVoto (New York: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2010), 78.
category: body, book review, breasts, freckles, legs, self
medium: letter
notes: Quoted in Dwight Garner's review of the book in the New York Times, "Friends Who Didn’t Mince Words," December 9, 2010.
“A decade ago, if you saw someone covering their ear and talking to themselves, you would have thought they were just nuts. Today that’s the norm. It’s as if they are totally consumed by their own world and have no room for the outside. It is complete immersion in self to the exclusion of all else. That has to have an impact on the rest of our lives.”
Charles Mysak
more infosource: “In Bookstore’s End, No Joy for Sidewalk Seller,” by Jennifer Medina, The New York Times, September 14, 2010.
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category: cell phone, self, technology
medium: newspaper article
“The way you get to know yourself is by the expressions on other people’s faces, because that’s the only thing that you can see, unless you carry a mirror about.”
Gil Scott-Heron
more infosource: “New York is Killing Me,” by Alex Wilkinson, The New Yorker, August 9, 2010, 26–32.
category: expression, identity, mirror, musician, self
medium: magazine profile
“Birthday resolution: From now on specialize; never again make any concession to the ninety-nine parts of you which are like everybody else at the expense of the one which is unique.”
Cyril Connolly
more infosource: The Unquiet Grave (New York: Persea Books, 1981), 95.
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category: birthday, individuality, resolution, self, specialize
medium: nonfiction
notes: Ernest Hemingway described The Unquiet Grave as “a book which, no matter how many readers it will ever have, will never have enough.”
“Sometimes the thing that’s weird about you is the thing that’s cool about you.”
Maureen Dowd
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