
“I’ve endured a few knocks but missed worse. I know how lucky I am, and secretly tap wood, greet the day, and grab a sneaky pleasure from my survival at long odds. The pains and insults are bearable. My conversation may be full of holes and pauses, but I’ve learned to dispatch a private Apache scout ahead into the next sentence, the one coming up, to see if there are any vacant names or verbs in the landscape up there. If he sends back a warning, I’ll pause meaningfully, duh, until something else comes to mind.”
Roger Angell
more infosource: “This Old Man: Life in the Nineties,” New Yorker, February 17, 2014.
category: aging, memory, survival
medium: Essay
“But it is growing damp and I must go in. Memory’s fog is rising.”
Emily Dickinson
more infosource: letter to her Louise and Frances Norcross, July 1884, in Emily Dickinson Letters (New York: Random House, 2011), 157.
medium: Letter
“Poor old Black Dog. I miss him. In the early morning when I work, he’s not there on the kudu skin beside the typewriter; and in the afternoon when I swim, he’s not hunting lizards beside the pool; and in the evenings when I sit in my chair to read, his chin isn’t resting on my foot. I miss Black Dog as much as I miss any friend I ever lost.”
Ernest Hemingway
more infosource: Papa Hemingway: A Personal Memoir, by A. E. Hotchner (New York: Da Capo Press, 2005), 243.
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category: dog, memory, mourning, pet, pet loss
medium: Memoir
“…I’m extremely happy with her, and part of it has to do with the fact that she is at once completely familiar to me, so that I can be myself and she knows me very well and I trust her completely, but at the same time she is also a complete mystery to me in some ways. And there are times when we are lying in bed and I look over and sort of have a start. Because I realize here is this other person who is separate and different and has different memories and backgrounds and thoughts and feelings. It’s that tension between familiarity and mystery that makes for something strong, because, even as you build a life of trust and comfort and mutual support, you retain some sense of surprise or wonder about the other person.”
President Barack Obama
more infosource: “A Couple in Chicago,” interview by Mariana Cook, The New Yorker, January 19, 2009.
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category: love, marriage, memory, Michelle Obama, partnership, politics, relationship, trust
medium: interview
notes: Interview originally conducted on May 26, 1996 by Mariana Cook, who visited the Obamas in Hyde Park as part of a photography project on couples in America.
“All things, once seen, they didn’t just die, that couldn’t be. It must be then that somewhere, searching the world, perhaps in the dripping multiboxed honeycombs where light was an amber sap stored by pollen-fired bees, or in the thirty thousand lenses of the noon dragonfly’s gemmed skull you might find all the colors and sights of the world in any one year. Or pour one single drop of this dandelion wine beneath a microscope and perhaps the entire world of July Fourth would firework out in Vesuvius showers.”
Ray Bradbury
more infosource: Dandelion Wine (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1978), 160.
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category: bee, color, dragonfly, firework, image, July 4, memory, sight
medium: Fiction
“It was my father who insisted on turning everything into a treat. I remember his showing me how to eat a peach by building a little white mountain of sugar and then dipping the peach into it.”
Mary McCarthy
more infosource: Memories of a Catholic Girlhood (New York: Harcourt, Brace and Company, 1957), 10.
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category: childhood, father, fruit, memory, peach, sweet
medium: Memoir
“I remember a backdrop of a brick wall I painted for a play. I painted each red brick in by hand. Afterwards it occurred to me that I could have just painted the whole thing red and put in the white lines.”
Joe Brainard
more infosource: I Remember (New York: Granary Books, 2001), 28.
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category: illusion, memory, painting, school of life
medium: Memoir
“I remember Saturday night baths and Sunday morning comics.”
Joe Brainard
more infosource: I Remember (New York: Granary Books, 2001), 26.
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category: bath, childhood, comics, memory, Saturday, Sunday
medium: Memoir
“Family is like water—it has a memory of what it once filled, always trying to get back to the original stream.”
Colum McCann
more infosource: Let the Great World Spin (New York: Random House, 2010), 57.
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category: family, memory, stream, water
medium: fiction
“Any nostalgia I feel is literary. I remember my childhood with tears, but they’re rhythmic tears, in which prose is already being formed. I remember it as something external, and it comes back to me through external things; I remember only external things. It’s not the stillness of evenings in the country that endears me to the childhood I spent there, it’s the way the table was set for tea, it’s the way the furniture was arranged in the room, it’s the faces and physical gestures of the people. I feel nostalgia for scenes.”
Fernando Pessoa
more infosource: The Book of Disquiet (New York: Penguin Books, 2002), 183–84.
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category: childhood, memory, nostalgia, past
medium: autobiography
“I am like you in my boyish rejection of elderliness. Antiquity—why not come right out with it? You pack a snowball on a winter day and imagine taking a belly flop on your sled as we all used to do back in the beautiful Twenties—I was ten years old in 1925. All that remains is the freshness of the impulse.”
Saul Bellow
more infosource: letter to Albert Glotzer, dated April 19, 1996, in Saul Bellow: Letters (New York: Viking, 2010), 518.
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category: aging, elderly, memory
medium: letter
“The commander’s words relieve their stricken hearts: ‘My comrades, hardly strangers to pain before now, we all have weathered worse. Some god will grant us an end to this as well. You’ve threaded the rocks resounding with Scylla’s howling rabid dogs, and taken the brunt of the Cyclops’ boulders, too. Call up your courage again. Dismiss your grief and fear. A joy it will be one day, perhaps, to remember even this.'”
Virgil
more infosource: The Aeneid, translated by Robert Fagles (New York: Viking Penguin, 2006), 54.
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category: courage, fear, joy, memory, pain, school of life
medium: poetry
“The fluttering in the stomach goes away and the dull waking pain. Sometimes I think of you and I feel giddy. Memory makes me lightheaded, drunk on champagne. All the things we did. And if anyone had said this was the price I would have agreed to pay it. That surprises me; that with the hurt and the mess comes a shaft of recognition. It was worth it. Love is worth it.”
Jeanette Winterson
more infosource: Written on the Body (New York: Vintage Books, 1994), 156.
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category: breakup, loss, love, memory
medium: fiction
“But I remember so much, the way her hands dismantled bread, the thing her father said that hurt her, what she dreamed.”
Robert Hass
more infosource: “Meditation at Lagunitas,” in The Columbia Anthology of American Poetry (New York: Columbia University Press, 1995), 715.
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category: love, memory, observation
medium: poetry
notes: quoted by Mary Karr in her Twitter feed
“It’s often said that we live in a permissive era, one with infinite second chances. But the truth is that for a great many people, the permanent memory bank of the Web increasingly means there are no second chances—no opportunities to escape a scarlet letter in your digital past. Now the worst thing you’ve done is often the first thing everyone knows about you.”
Jeffrey Rosen
more infosource: “The Web Means the End of Forgetting,” The New York Times, July 19, 2010.
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category: identity, Internet, memory, past, reputation, shame, technology
medium: newspaper article


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