
“I went to see [George] Santayana daily. The talk ranged from autobiography, philosophical theories on world politics, Aristotle’s theory of sensation, Spanish quotations, ideas on Boston, lots of very catty and very good gossip and above all Boston and religion. The meetings were delightful for me and perfect, except that he is deaf and couldn’t hear a word—shouted or whispered—that I said.”
Robert Lowell
more infosource: letter to Elizabeth Bishop, dated December 6, 1950, written from Florence, in Words in Air (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2010), 115.
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category: communication, deaf, friendship, George Santayana, philosophy
medium: Letter
“I want to be your south wind—bringing good and fruitful things only.”
Anaïs Nin
more infosource: letter to Henry Miller, October 8, 1933, in A Literate Passion: Letters of Anaïs Nin & Henry Miller, 1932–1953 (New York: Harcourt Brace, 1989), 215.
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category: friendship, love, wind
medium: Letter
“It’s good having friends who farm. It’s good to know the names of their cows and the calves that come in the spring. It’s fun to see the new ones when I head up to get eggs from my neighbor. It’s good knowing they would be here in a minute for us anytime day or night, and it’s good knowing they can count on us the same way. We have a 1958 Ford tractor that I love. We have silos and a barn that has been here 100 years. The original house burned down years before we got here. Our house is a little tract house—nothing much at all. But we put on a tin roof and a covered porch and built a masonry bread oven. We have a big garden—man, I’m starting to cry here. It’s not the prettiest farm at all, but it’s the best place I’ve ever lived in my life.”
Lynda Barry
more infosource: Vice interview by Amy Kellner
category: community, cow, farm, friendship, garden, home, tractor
medium: Interview
“Dearest Eudora, what there is to say we have said, in one way or another.”
William Maxwell
more infosource: letter to Eudora Welty, January 15, 1996, in What There Is to Say We Have Said, ed. by Suzanne Marrs (Boston: Houghton Mifflin, 2011), 440.
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category: friendship, love
medium: Letter
“Do not allow yourself to be imprisoned by any affection. Keep your solitude. The day, if it ever comes, when you are given true affection there will be no opposition between interior solitude and friendship, quite the reverse. It is even by this infallible sign that you will recognize it.”
Simone Weil
more infosource: Gravity and Grace (London: Routledge, 2002), 67.
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category: friendship, love, solitude
medium: Nonfiction
“Please never stop writing me letters—they always manage to make me feel like my higher self…”
Elizabeth Bishop
more infosource: letter to Robert Lowell, August 26, 1963, in Words in Air: The Complete Correspondence Between Elizabeth Bishop and Robert Lowell (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2010), 332.
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category: friendship, letter writing
medium: Letter
“We were not children together but we are now.”
Dean Young
more infosource: “Dear Friend,” in Embryoyo: New Poems (San Francisco, CA: Believer Books, 2007), 76.
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category: childhood, children, friendship
medium: Poetry
“Into the little port you cannot sail unwelcome at any hour of day or night.”
Emily Dickinson
more infosource: Autumn 1869 letter to Louisa and Frances Norcross, Dickinson’s first cousins, in Letters: Emily Dickinson, selected and ed. by Emily Fragos (New York: Everyman’s Library, 2011), 55.
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category: family, friendship, love, port, sea
medium: Letter
“It is not often that someone comes along who is a true friend and a good writer.”
E. B. White
more infosource: Charlotte’s Web (New York: HarperCollins, 2001), full color edition, 184.
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category: children's story, friendship, writer
medium: fiction
via: Neil Steinberg“I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frost-work, but the solidest thing we know.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
more infosource: “Friendship,” in Essays (Philadelphia: David McKay, Publisher ), 220.
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category: friendship
medium: essay
“The friendships which last are those wherein each friend respects the other’s dignity to the point of not wanting anything from him.”
Cyril Connolly
more infosource: The Unquiet Grave (New York: Persea Books, 1981), 16.
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category: friendship
medium: nonfiction
notes: Ernest Hemingway described The Unquiet Grave as “a book which, no matter how many readers it will ever have, will never have enough.”
“Send me a little note, old pal. Remember you occupy one of the top compartments of my heart.”
Saul Bellow
more infosource: letter to Samuel Freifeld, dated November 5, 1955, in Saul Bellow: Letters (New York: Viking, 2010), 142.
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category: friendship, heart, letter, love
medium: letter
“True friends. Hardest thing to find, but you never look for them—they find you; you just grow into each other.”
Keith Richards
more infosource: Life (New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2010), 439.
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category: friendship
medium: memoir
notes: written with James Fox
“Did it not see me through all my times of trouble and despair?”
Henry Miller
more infosource: description of his bicycle, “My Best Friend,” in My Bike & Other Friends (Santa Barbara, CA: Capra Press, 1978), 105–110.
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category: bicycle, despair, friendship, trouble
medium: essay
“People with yuan fen are destined to like one another;
Friendship develops even if a thousand miles apart.
But should yuan fen be absent between two individuals,
They will remain strangers despite sitting face-to-face.”
Adeline Yen Mah
more infosource: Chinese Cinderella and the Secret Dragon Society (New York: HarperCollins, 2005), 25.
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category: connection, friendship
medium: fiction


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