“Perhaps the old academies were right after all: don’t learn by copying nature, copy art. It’s not that nature gets it wrong, it’s that good artists show you how to get nature right. They know what changes you have to make to a thing to make it look like itself, but in another medium. What a chisel has to do to make marble flowers look like flowers, what a paintbrush has to do to bring a face to life in two dimensions. No matter what direction you take later, imitating the best work of your betters makes a good beginning. Maybe my eighteenth-centry motto got it backward. Don’t imitate Homer, imitate the Iliad.
David Esterly
more infosource: The Lost Carving: A Journey to the Heart of Making (New York: Viking, 2012), 75–6.
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category: copy, creative process, imitate, inspiration
medium: Memoir
“In one of his poems, George Chapman, Shakespeare’s contemporary, compares time to a pollinating honeybee and the world to a flower garden, declaring strangely that ‘time’s golden thigh upholds the flowery body of the earth.’ He explains that when we use time correctly it brings harmony and legitimacy to life. The verse ends with an aphorism: ‘The use of time is fate.’ The phrase is inscribed on my workroom door. It’s in front of me now, in the flickering sunlight glancing off the river. The Use of Time Is Fate.”
David Esterly
more infosource: The Lost Carving: A Journey to the Heart of Making (New York: Viking, 2012), 53.
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category: fate, school of life, time
medium: Memoir
“Disaster can be a fine designer. Better than a pencil sometimes. It can lead you to safety.”
David Esterly
more infosource: The Lost Carving: A Journey to the Heart of Making (New York: Viking, 2012), 111.
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category: design, disaster, safety
medium: Memoir
“Because carvers revere the god of unseen effort, of hidden work, of the back of things. The god of assiduousness, reigning over obsessives and perfectionists. Writers who delete whole chapters in the slender hope that what’s gone will shine through what’s left. Computer scientists who write beautiful code, programs that are more elegant than necessity demands. Why stop there? The cleaner who does more than an employer will ever notice, the night nurse who holds the hand of the unconscious stranger. If you’re looking for glamour, you’ve come to the wrong place, but it’s where you’ll find two old carvers whose serenity seemed to flower out of a lifetime of scrupulous work. Maybe it explains their venerable age, too. Somewhere I read of a study that identified not optimism or happiness or serenity or sociability as the psychological trait most predictive of longevity, but a more homespun one: conscientiousness.”
David Esterly
more infosource: The Lost Carving: A Journey to the Heart of Making (New York: Viking, 2012), 111.
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category: conscientiousness, creative process, pride, wood carver
medium: Memoir
“For companionship I kept pets. I had a cat and a mouse. It’s hard to believe that’s what I had—it may explain a little of what I am. A little white mouse, Gladys. I would bring her to school and have a chat in the French lesson when it got boring.”
Keith Richards
more infosource: Life (New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2010), 39.
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category: cat, companion, mouse, pet
medium: Memoir
“It snowed on Christmas night. We walked to Times Square to see the white billboard proclaiming WAR IS OVER! If you want it. Happy Christmas from John and Yoko.”
Patti Smith
more infosource: Just Kids (New York: Ecco, 2010), 130.
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category: Christmas, John Lennon, New York City, snow, Times Square, Yoko Ono
medium: memoir
“Poor old Black Dog. I miss him. In the early morning when I work, he’s not there on the kudu skin beside the typewriter; and in the afternoon when I swim, he’s not hunting lizards beside the pool; and in the evenings when I sit in my chair to read, his chin isn’t resting on my foot. I miss Black Dog as much as I miss any friend I ever lost.”
Ernest Hemingway
more infosource: Papa Hemingway: A Personal Memoir, by A. E. Hotchner (New York: Da Capo Press, 2005), 243.
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category: dog, memory, mourning, pet, pet loss
medium: Memoir
“In a children’s art class, we sat in a ring on kindergarten chairs and drew three daffodils that had just been picked out of the yard; and while I was drawing, my sharpened yellow pencil and the cup of the yellow daffodil gave off whiffs just alike. That the pencil doing the drawing should give off the same smell as the flower it drew seemed part of the art lesson—as shouldn’t it be? Children, like animals, use all their senses to discover the world.”
Eudora Welty
more infosource: One Writer’s Beginnings (Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1984), 9–10.
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category: art, children, creative process, drawing, flower
medium: Memoir
“Alone had always felt like an actual place to me, as if it weren’t a state of being, but rather a room where I could retreat to be who I really was.”
Cheryl Strayed
more infosource: Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 2012), 119.
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category: alone, introvert, solitude
medium: Memoir
“The school had some good teachers, mostly older women who didn’t care if they were laughed at for reciting poetry, or for letting a tear fall while they described the Battle of Verdun.”
Tobias Wolff
more infosource: This Boy’s Life (New York: Grove Press, 1989), 182.
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category: education, schoool, teacher
medium: Memoir
“We sit in a silence it’s hard not to scribble in with chat.”
Mary Karr
more info“If poetry was a rope, then the books themselves were rafts. At my most precarious I balanced on a book, and the books rafted me over the tides of feelings that left me soaked and shattered.”
Jeanette Winterson
more infosource: Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? (New York: Grove Press, 2011), 164.
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category: book, poetry, reading
medium: Memoir
“By age thirty, I’m not writing squat, which I blame on my ramped-up consulting schedule, knowing full well my favorite poet was a full-time insurance exec.”
Mary Karr
more infosource: Lit (New York: Harper, 2009), 120.
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category: day job, poet, procrastination, writing
medium: Memoir
“The more I read, the more I felt connected across time to other lives and deeper sympathies. I felt less isolated. I wasn’t floating on my little raft in the present; there were bridges that led over to solid ground. Yes, the past is another country, but one that we can visit, and once there we can bring back the things we need.”
Jeanette Winterson
more infosource: Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? (New York: Grove Press, 2011), 144.
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medium: Memoir
“Love is vivid. I never wanted the pale version. Love is full strength. I never wanted the diluted version. I never shied away from love’s hugeness but I had no idea that love could be as reliable as the sun. The daily rising of love.”
Jeanette Winterson
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